"As the blossoms finally take hold across Great Barton and Thurston, and the days stretch out with the promise, at least, of warmth! - we find ourselves entering May. In the long-standing tradition of the Church, May is dedicated to Mary, the mother of Jesus. While this can sometimes feel like an old historical observation, I believe it offers us a vital opportunity to reflect on the indispensable role of women in shaping our faith and building our modern society.

When we look at the Gospels, we see that women were never intended to be background characters. Mary herself was a radical; a young woman who gave a courageous and life-altering "Yes" to God, embarking on a journey that changed the course of history. She wasn't just a passive figure in a silent tableau; she was the first disciple, the one who prompted Jesus into his first miracle at Cana, and the one who stood steadfast at the foot of the cross when many others had fled.

But the story doesn’t end with Mary. The Gospels are populated by women whose resilience and dedication kept the early movement alive. We see Mary Magdalene, the first witness to the Resurrection; Phoebe, Joanna, and Susanna, who provided for the ministry of Jesus out of their own means; and Martha and Mary of Bethany, who challenged the social norms of their time to sit at the feet of the teacher. These women were the heartbeat of the early church, providing the courage and practical care that allowed the message of God’s love to flourish.

In our villages today, that legacy of leadership continues. Whether it is in our local schools, our businesses, our parish councils, or the quiet, often unseen work of nurturing neighbours and families, women remain the pillars of our community. We are also incredibly fortunate to see this leadership reflected in the leadership of our faith today. We look to the guidance of our own Bishop Joanne and the pioneering leadership of the Archbishop of Canterbury, Sarah Mullally, who lead our faith communities with such wisdom and vision. Their presence in these roles is a clear sign of a church that is moving toward a future where every voice and every mind is truly valued.

If we are to be a church and a community that thrives in a growing Suffolk, we must ensure that this inclusivity is not just an ideal, but a daily reality. Celebrating Mary’s month isn't just about looking back at a historical figure; it’s about looking around at the women who are leading, creating, and sustaining life in our villages today. It’s about ensuring that every individual can grow up in a world where their potential is never limited by outdated expectations, and where their contributions are celebrated equally.

This week, I invite you to take a moment to look at your own circles. Think of a woman in your life—perhaps a friend, a colleague, or a member of the village whose dedication often goes unnoticed.

Reach out to them. It could be a simple card, a quick chat over the garden fence, or a phone call. Tell them specifically what you appreciate about their contribution to your life or our community. When we name and celebrate the value of those around us, we participate in that same spirit of radical welcome that Mary and the women of the Gospels pioneered.

Let’s make this May a month where appreciation of the women in our lives is an action, not just a sentiment!"

The Rev'd Fr Benjamin Edwards

Vicar of Great Barton & Thurston